If you CARE ...You have to be an adult.

I was reading about about problems people were having at school dances.
Seems that the kids were doing "Freak" dancing. Which is not proper.
The adults did not like it but said that they could not stop it.
I was thinking "Just give a fair warning and if it does not stop, pull the plug. Dance over."
The kids are not stupid. They will dance properly and enjoy proper music once they know the rules.

Well, on the next page it is explained that the adults, I should say the older people, as they did not act adult, were afraid that if they pulled the plug their kids would not like them.
 So as I reason that, they let their kids do that which they knew was bad for them in order keep their kids happy with them.
It  seems to me that those "Adults" were more concerned with their own feelings than the welfare of the kids.
If being "friends with your kids means that you have to let you kids do that which will harm them, than friend, You are not a good parent. You are supposed to be older and wiser, if you love your kids more than your ego,...act like it.